‘Who’s In? Who’s Out?’

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“Who ﻷIn? Who ﻷOut? ”

Matthew 15:10-28

Glen Bell

First Presbyterian Church, Sarasota, Florida

We don’t make it easy. Our mothers and fathers in faith, and their mothers and fathers,learned the appropriate waystoapproach God. InJewishtradition, this includes the 613 commandments of the law, the rules and traditions that faithful believers embraced. Some of these seem right and good to our post-modern ears: Remember the Passover, and recall the Exodus from Egypt; that is, remember that God rescued US from slavery. Worship no idols, and do not take God’s name in vain. Do not murder or testify falsely or covet. Respect your parents. Fend to the poor and destitute, and do not oppress the weak. Leave gleanings for the poor. Do not bear a grudge or take revenge. Repent and confess wrongdoing. Do not appear at the Temple without offerings, and give charity to the poor. Others seem strange to US: Do not eat the meat of an animal moitally wounded. Do not eat mixtures of meat and milk cooked together. Do not eat any ηοη-kosher animals. Observe all the laws of impurity. Do not lend with interest. Wear phylacteries on the head and tehllin on the arm, and put a mezuzah on each door post. The king must not have too many wives. Destroy the seven Canaanite nations, and wipe out the descendants of Amalek. Do not wear clothing of mixed hbers. Pay all wages on the very day they are earned. We didn’t make it easy for those beyond the chosen people of God to become a pait of the community of faith. Jesus directly assaulted the laws of impurity, of hand washing, and ritual cleansing , when he piOclaimed, “It is not what goes into the mouth that dehles a person.” It was upsetting and deeply disappointing to all the people of God who did their very best to uphold and keep all the laws and traditions, that they might be worthy before the Ford. But Jesus was clear: it is what comes out ol the mouth-what piOceeds from the heait-that dehles US: evil intentions, murder, adultery, fornication. False witness, slander. Sometimes I and perhaps you are so busy keeping the outward rules that we oveilook what is truly most impoitant about our lives. Do we really believe it does US any good to put on our Sunday best and come to worship if we abuse our neighbors or sleep with that person who is not our wife or our husband, if we he and criticize and demean and cheat’? We don’t make it easy. Our mothers and fathers in Faith, and their mothers and


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fathers before them, learned the appropriate ways to approach God. In American PiOtestantism, this includes all kinds of ritual and lOutine and special language. We sit quietly on pews or rows of seats and stand when directed to sing or speak responsively. We use metaphorical language in our liturgy and songs and sermons, this morning about chains and wells and houses and directions. We speak of the “session ” and the “naithex” even though newcomers almost need a dictionary to dehne those terms. We place or pretend to place our offerings in the plate as it is passed, although many of US don’t even bother to pretend, giving only one percent or one-half of one percent of our income to the work of the church. Often I and perhaps you are so busy attending to all these traditions that we overlook what is most impoitant about our lives. Do we truly think it helpful to go thiOugh the motions of listening and rehecting and singing and giving halfheaitedly if we hold tight to our grudges and oveilook the needy’? if we ignore our neighbors, both down the row of seats/pew and aciOss the street’? if we care nothing about the people of eastern Ukraine and the refugees on Sinjar Mountain’? if we care nothing about justice in Ferguson, Missouri’? if we deny the prevalence of continuing racism, alive and well on the streets of America’? if we turn away from unaccompanied children, seeking to escape the violence of the streets in Tegucicalpa and San PediO Sula’? Do we become insiders by keeping the rules and traditions, without addressing the orientation of the heait, the choices, and the everyday decisions of our lives’? Can we become God’s children by sitting and standing and singing and keeping quiet at all the right times during worship, while ignoring injustice’? Or does life in Christ demand change’? We don’t make it easy for ourselves. In our deep desire to believe that we are good enough, honest enough, sound enough, fair enough, we have a terrible way of drawing the circle aiound ourselves, that we may be inside even if others are out. We don’t make it easy. If you were listening very carefully some time ago, hve chapters earlier in Matthew’s gospel, when Jesus is commissioning the apostles, as he grants them authority to cure every disease and heal every illness, as he charges them to be a force for love in the world, piOclaiming the good news, cleansing the lepers, casting out demons, raising the dead, he also says this, “Go nowhere among the Gentiles. Go instead to the house of Israel.” Even Jesus says to bless the insiders, our people, our friends and neighbors. Not those others. And then we reach the last eight verses of this morning’s lesson which shake our foundations. A Canaanite woman, an outsider, a Gentile approaches Jesus shouting, “Have mercy on me. Lord; heal my daughter.” There is nothing appropriate about the way she approaches. It is shocking to our post-modern ears. If we are only eager to identify the insiders and outsiders, then you and I know this: the church is simply not a place for shouting, for someone to show up and interrupt . Being with Jesus, we believe, is done decently and in order, with decorum and aplomb. But we cannot help but hear her prayer.

Have mercy on me. Lord. I am biOken.

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Have mercy on me. My daughter is possessed, and I cannot help her. Have mercy on me. I do not know what to do. Have mercy on me. Lord. I need help. Have mercy on me. No matter who we are or how far we have come this morning, we know that prayer. No matter how wrongly worthy I or perhaps you may sometimes feel, we know that prayer. No matter how many of the 613 traditions we keep, we still know that prayer. Have mercy on me. Lord: I am afraid my parents never loved me. Have mercy on me. Lord. I was so unfair to my children. I don’t know what to say to them. Have mercy on me. Lord. I cheated on my wife. Have mercy on me. Lord. I only give leftovers to church and charity. Have mercy on me. Lord. I’m afraid my husband will never get well. Have mercy on me. Lord. All we do is Luss and hght. Have mercy on me. Lord. I can’t stop drinking or cursing or criticizing or holding that grudge. Have mercy on me. Lord. My lile is coming to a close. Have mercy on me. Lord. It is the prayer, I believe, that God always hears, when we scream it or sob it or whisper it. But, at this moment, Jesus does not hear it. He says, “I was sent only to Israel, not to you Gentiles. It is not fair to take the children’s Lood, the Lood belonging to the children ol Israel, and throw itto the dogs, the Canaanites, the Gentiles, the outsiders. ” But this woman, this Canaanite, this person who does not keep the law and traditions, this outsider who does not know how to read a bulletin or worship appropriately, she persists. “Help me. Lord,” she prays. “Yes, Lord,” she responds, “but even the dogs eat the crumbs. “And Jesus is dumblounded. He recognizes her Laith, her persistence, her deep desire for transformation and healing, and he grants her desire. Jesus changes. Jesus grows. And he invites US to do the same. Jae Won Lee taught New Testament for eight years at McCormick Seminary. He writes this: “This woman who is socially marginalized breaks thiOugh external ditferences to claim God’s mercy. She shouts her demands at Jesus. Again and again, she violates boundaries ol ethnicity, heritage, religion, gender, and demon possession . And Jesus is big enough not to be ashamed to learn something from a Gentile Canaanite woman.” Remember the charge ol Christ in Matthew 10, when he is commissioning the apostles, “Go only to Israel”’? The word is far different at the close ol the gospel, in the Great Commission, when the resurrected Christ commands his followers to go and make disciples ol all nations. Sisters and brothers, you and I are invited to listen and watch for the Holy Spirit, even when the Spirit’s appearing is strange and surprising, in the most unexpected places. You and I are invited never to give only just enough and do only just enough to try to become insiders, but to speak and forgive and share beyond any human measure, offering our very best in Christ’s name. We don’t make it easy. But the Lord has mercy on US, that we may offer mercy to others, every day, to God’s glory.

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